You are the Godfather of a child and the child and mother are in an abusive home? Furthermore, I turned myself in for this warrant, and now they are saying I will be charged with a felony if I dont bring the child back. Click on the web site Ive attached to my name; its not my site, but its very helpful for fathers. Would it not be reasonable to give notice of this change to the other parent? I live in nebraska and this saturday will be the fathers first supervised visit with my baby, what am i supposed to do if he does not return the infant to me at the time hes suppose too, and doesnt show up at all out of anger towards me?! Indiana my dear friends, go figure. Does that qualify for kidanpping or parentAl kidnapping??? He had no right to withdraw her from school. *** thank you so much. But I was I was granted full custody but before the divorce was final my ex ran to another state authoritys are not helping in any way i havent saw my son in 4 months is there anything i can do shes clearly in hiding and defying orders and custody aggreements. She constantly makes threats to move away to WV to this man and says she does not even plan to inform the biological Father prior to leaving. My son has been ripped from me and brainwashed by his father! And she would bring him to see me or I would take the bus and she would pick me up at the bus stop. Any ideas on this. What can he do if he feels that his child is not safe with them? In there you will find the information needed as well as guidelines for transfer, visitation and custody. The bad thing is you have to go to Court and do everything needed file a petition, serve the other parent, wait for a Court date, present your case, and if you win the other parent can be put in jail or whatever code your state has for the offense. I have petitioned for sole custody of the boys. Some states do not care what the childs wishes are. how could I get it so he could not longer be able to come see him since it has been so long anyways? I feel the best place for the girls to grow and be loved is with my son. Against what I said, the gma continued to use her info and open a bank account under her name for my daughter. Failure to receive court-ordered child support is not usually a valid defense against a custodial interference charge. I dont want my children to be around her because he has told me that she cries because she isnt their mommy. everyone jumps on the custodial parent side.. Top-requested sites to log in to services provided by the state. i still go to get my daughter however she is no where around. In the end what am I showing my kids by being nit picky? < 3 I am lookn for a lawyer he has hx of alcoholism, previous and current dui. first, child support and visitation are separate issues. It is classified as a crime and can be prosecuted in court. An official website of the Commonwealth of Massachusetts, This page, Filing for child custody or parenting time in Massachusetts, is. Claiming she was ill and thats why she didnt show. He could petition the court, and the court could tell you that you can only live within a 100 mile radius of him. and would be considered a kidnapping or MISSING/case Building a parenting agreement that works: child custody agreements step by step, Nolo, 2018. She has brought the cops to my house and they wont do anything for her..so I dont have to hand our son over to her if the courts are not in it correct? He is in contempt of court my dear, and you can file contempt yourself, attorneys (sorry to say) *in my opinion* just take your money and make the process take longer to get more money. Now that I gave you the facts I will give you the questions which they will ask and you need to think of how you will answer with the childs interests first in mind. what do these adults say when you talk to them? Can he stop me from taking her on vacation? he has had his 3 girls for the last 4 years cuz there mother decided to get rid of them. (Paraphrased) The state which holds Initial Jurisdiction holds Exclusive Jurisdiction unless both parties have no further ties to that said state OR Initial Jurisdiction was never established.. He refuses to allow me access to the 11 yr old in anyway shape or form telling me my 15 yr old and my 11 yr old we are to pretend he is adopted. I have seen my daughter 2 times and she is only 3 years old. If you had legal custody how is it humanly possible if you have been looking for them police? I filed CPS when my son told me that his dad had guns to his face and was telling him that he was going to kill all of us but they did not find enough, I guess you would say to charge him with anything. my county said I should never have been arrested and that i would have to go to his county to file a complaint. The home state where the child has been residing for the last 6 months or in most cases , where the child was born is the home state . 0640.31 Custodial Interference. methamphetamine drug user and has already in her past marriage lost 3 children due to her addiction and living environment. Those Custodial interference can sometimes happen with the child's consent and cooperation - a parent who convinces their child to stay with them or leave the geographical area with them, against the terms of a custody order, is still committing custodial interference. Is this a battle worthy of going to court? Abandonment, in most states, is not only grounds for custodial reversal but also grounds for criminal prosecution. And he would get her Mom and thurs til 7pm. If one of your childs parents work out of state and is not home for his weekends do I still have to send my child with his girlfriend? If a almost 15 year old runs away from the custodial parents home, to the non-custodial parents home (across state lines), and of their own accord. Saturday morning, he called my daughter & said he wanted to go into work, so he wanted her to come & pick up my grandaughter. The best interest of the children is going to be what the courts are looking for (mostly, your mileage may vary, consult local statutes and case law, refer to your current custody agreement, I am not a lawyer). you name it she is calling.Anything??? I see my child only when she allows me. WHERE DID MY MONEY GO??? The joint custody agreement is in wv. or do we contact a lawyer first? 3 During these abductions, the children were taken against the custodial parents' will by the noncustodial parents to retaliate against their ex-companions; in such cases, the perpetrators may . I also am concerned that he may have hurt one of our children and is afraid they will disclose it to me. I do not teach them to hate their dad, I tell them the truth in the past when they asked about him, but now they do not ask for him and the children are just 5,5, and 4. Well I dont want to sound rude but if she left she should had never left the baby. This should only be your last recourse not your first. LOL, A lengthy criminal record including fraud to the tune of 50k, 3 years behind support payments, dozens of police documented custody violations (kidnapping charges file by local PD once), perjury, ect never had her license revoked, or spent a single day in jail, nothing. 1.) 650-34-2254 birth day 10-21-2004 my child the mom Karin M Spears abandoned with grandparent Jack and Janet Spears 1170 E Ellicott Rd. Show you have a good home for the child to visit and are educated on baby care. What ARE my rights? The next visitation, my ex came through the window trying to strangle me. (I also let him have her on thanksgiving, christmas and other special events because I want us to be in both of her life even though we no longer are a couple, also so she would never feel like she was picking one or another.) I have a 3 year old and 18 month old sons. The courts also put an order forth for myself to have the children every other weekend to take the kids to see their dad who they adore. He has told my children bad things about me and they have told me of it. A new parenting plan was signed by the Judge. Remember if she screws up it is not your problem, it is hers. Jeffrey Cason, I need help find a lawyer since I dont have funds, Its in Montgomery County, conroe,TX With out paying $1000s for an attorney, what can be done or what can she do to him or I? What rights do we have and what can we do about this, Recently separated from my childrens father May 2016. Im told that the State wont take the time or money to attempt to track her down as she has full physical and legal custody and that a contempt of court charge is not something law enforcement is going to really spend any time on either. statement I went an entire 2 years with no contact with my son, I spent that 2 The ex has said there is no way he will allow me to trake her to China as he feels it unsafe he said the same thing about her going with her French club on a planned trip to France. She has physical custody, we both have shared legal. Thats what we are and always will be. can they be arrested? As for who keeps them she already knows this. Im moving outta state for a Better job and cheaper cost of living. i have 5o 5o custody or time sharing, court ordered. Here is my suggestion, take it for what it is worth and understand things are a little different from state to state. If he doesnt respond and make plans then I would tell him that if he doesnt keep his visitation that he may put himself in a position to lose custody, but he will definitely break her heart. You will need to go back to court on a contempt charge against her. If that is so, how do you make someone do something they will not do so how can that work? In my divorce papers it states the non custodial parent has to return the child back to the custodial parent which is me once visitation is done. I read your concern about your stepson. they said it is a civil matter and I have to take it to court. Remember these actions are the short term. So what can I do is there anyway to get the custody hearing dismissed based on the same reasons the tro was dissolved? And the mother has a history of violence. Did I do wrong by keeping my son? One time we ran out of court after her just so he could tell her he loves her and she acted like he was a monster. hIDH];J*"-NK",HO)~llUE"l&KQ?}d!o o?a5S`Z x{EEl\$Y:/ [=ShMHwvW6[.I0JJ1P{.b1:-PQJ*AxS@/ f0R=BG~@}. The kids do better when there is no communication. My husband and his ex-wife have Shared Legal custody in the state of Florida. This, too, is an interference with custody rights. I was informed that based on my facts I could file criminal complaint. Because of this delay in him getting surgery he may have permanent nerve damage, we will not know until after surgery. YEP. is there any state that does not go by new york states child custody laws? and "parent by estoppel status is most appropriate where "adoption is not legally available or possible. 4 days prior to my daughters birthday I had sent her attorney a written authorized consent for her to travel our of the country with my daughter, then the following day I sent her an email telling her what time I was picking up my daughter to celebrate her birthday with my family and she responded back by telling me that I she was not allowing me to take her out of the house after she gave me her verbal consent. he has me and the baby sleeping on an airmattress in the living room of his girlfriends house, its been this way for a months, before the air mattress we were stuck on a couch. We ended up canceling the divorce and the OP because he wants me back, and I dont have the money to pay an attorney. His ex leaves with the child at 2 months old (now nearly 5 years old). Oh, thats why you get child support? Further, the court declined to adopt a "parent by estoppel," theory as defined in the ALI Principles of the Law of Family Dissolution 2.03 (2002). Once they are found in contempt it is a criminal charge and there are consequences. I went to the police station to pick up the actual reports (more details)turns out when he got caught the second time, he admitted he was stealing things for herionand while I was up there I got the police report where is girlfriend got nailed with the needle, and the spoonlord a behold, it had his addressI gave it to my attorney, and was able to get his every other weekend visitation knocked down to supervised visitationwhat tops it all of is that HIS mother is not allowed to be the supervisor at all, since she has lied to the courts, and me regarding his drug use BTW his visitation was modified prior the the supervised visitsin the beginning it was Thursday to Friday one week, then the next week it was Friday to Sundaybut since the ex was not helping our son with his homework from school the days he had him school daysI got a written statement from his teacher on which days his homework was not getting done. How you can love your children and think their father is a sperm donor is beyond my comprehension as a woman. What will most likely happen custody (visitation) wise. we are definitely coming back. I miss my children so much it physically makes me ill thinking about them. ) or https:// means youve safely connected to the official website. Now, it looks like a costly court battle is going to ensue. I have joint custody, but physical custody lies with my ex in the state of N.C. Im wondering if he can do this to me? You could be showing yourself to be seeking reasons to prevent his custody and you could lose custody for this and thus child support if you continue. How do I terminate the co guardianship? Not to mention, the Statute states prior to the issuance of a temporary or final order of custody but after process was served. Once because I was not allowed to have my daughter for my court ordered summer visitation, (I filed this motion on my own) the judge ordered us to go to Mediation, we did so and I won my case. Now the new guy, who I am set to marry in the next year or so has a great job. Even if I hate the man, I love him as their father. Is it possible to let her choose? For example this weekend I went to pick up my son and my ex mother in law (who is always confrontational with me) started yelling and swearing at me and refusing to let my son leave; when I arrived at her home she continued yelling and refusing my son to come outside to me. Does that state have jurisdiction to do anything, so we lived in the new state for over 6 months, allowing the other state to have jurisdiction now? For the 1st time since I was 15 I was sober and functioning! This will get the ball rolling in the right direction for his protection. but check your family law division at the court house and ask or google what form you need to enforce an order. ahlilah@yahoo.com. Unless you have been forcefully removed from the everyday upbringing of your child by the Court, you can not fathom the emotional distress. Did you give reasonable notice that you wanted to change this Agreement? Then, he will either reply or your covered with plenty of notice. The childs father has a brother who was at the parking lot waiting to take the child from us. I refused and he has tortured and harraised me ever since.. please someone help me!!!! Click here to get FREE legal advice from Rocket Lawyer, Update July 26, 2011-Surprise of the Night dadincustodialcrisis, http://www.causes.com/causes/635417-pas-intervention/about, http://www.womenslaw.org/statutes_detail.php?statute_id=3606#statute-top, http://www.njleg.state.nj.us/2012/Bills/S2000/1607_I1.PDF, https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/70c792811b90b1cac4d015acc4d2e30e4e3e9f9fdf1b8e1fe07234353f102b7b.png. I am available to get him from school every day and keep him until my ex gets out of work. The Order can be modified when both parties agree you both agreed on changing the Order and have followed those changes for quite some time and established precedence if you call police or say kidnapping that would be UNWISE. Can anyone please advise? She however refuses to show up on time and then just keeps the kids extra to offset the time that she was late I dont want to make things worse but im not sure if not going to the police for custodial interferance and violating the OP by calling me constantly, will help.. on the other hand i fear not doing so will weaken my case in court.. Im just trying to get suggestions on if I should go to the police and then also file for enforcement.. or would just fileing with the court be just as effective? My visit starts at 1130 Is there anything I could do? 3) Will my psychiatric hospitalization negatively affect the court order regarding custody/visitation? On my paperwork it does clearly state I am the custodial parent and child physically lives w/ me. A lock icon ( Its a biased system against the family/children YOU MUST STATE THE LAW. my girlfriend, non custodial parent, is having a problem with her ex, custodial parent, calling whenever he wants during our weekend. We have no other choice its no longer in the best interest of our son for us to be in his life its always a fight and a constant battle in front of him. You dont have to split a sick day unless you agree to it. If either of these questions are answered wrong a judge can do a temporary restriction to visitation (supervised visitation only) for a given amount of time subject to review. Florida Statute 787.03 governs parental kidnapping and interference with custodial rights. Here are some of your advantages. So, you have to be miles ahead of any assault against you the Court, the world, the federal organizations have absolutely NO CONCERN FOR FATHERS when it comes to children except for MONEY. Im not an attorney. Im scared hell hurt her or worse run away w her!! He has never been in his daughters life unless his mother had her or I invited her over. His new residence is 3.5 hours away. Its called Enabling Clause! He is seeing a counselor, and he claims that his counselor says I shouldnt be around him or my daughter, but has given me no reason why the counselor would say this. He has no parental controls, she is a target to bullies pedophiles and not responsible enough etc. ALWAYS have a witness with you upon exchange of the children, prefered someone they are comfortable with (grandparent, friend or other family member) that can claim withness to the situation. Davids family gave testimonies to the judge insisting I was a danger. What if every time my kids visit their father, him and his new wife drill the kids for information and get child protection involved and any other amenities to get the paramount parent in troube? Fathers move out of state may be a factor in the courts determination to award you sole legal custody, but that fact alone is not determinative. Is there anything I can do? Thanks. They both contradict one another as well. I think that she just wants to get me caught up because i am married and she doesnt want me to be. You skipped the table of contents section. http://www.causes.com/causes/635417-pas-intervention/about. childhood not bad not greatbut while reading my story aloud I was choking This Spell Casting isnt brainwashing, but he opened up His paternal step-grandmother has had custody of him since he was 10 months old. Whatever. So much for the paper the laws and court orders are written on. Does the mother have to return the child if he is not returning to the fathers residence/care but is going to a different-than-ordered caretaker in whose care another of her children was driven to suicide? I NEED TO KNOW IF MY SONS MOTHER (DOMICILE) PARENT CAN BE ARRESTED AS SHE DOESNT FOLLOW OUR COURT ORDERS FOR VISITATIONS AND CONSTANLY DEVIATES CHANGES IF YOU WILL FROM THEM? I finally got a lead on her only to find out all of her kids had been taken by the state. 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